Is there such a thing as unconditional love nowadays? Except of course of the Divine Love from the Creator.
Why do people always set up a certain qualification before saying the words "I Love You"? Why do we need to look up to someone's status, plans and whatever before settling with the feeling that is on your heart?
Is it love? Or just a simple insecurity that you can not live with someone who did not pass your so called requirements? I thought love is an involuntary feeling? Why do most people always have this checkpoint? Can't they just accept the fact that no one is ever perfect enough meet standards?
Or is it like a balance between heart and mind? Not a bad thing either. But it is not love anymore. I call it merely securing your life. And if it is, then it basically goes against all the love song that were made and being aired on Radio Stations, being downloaded and being saved in Discs for selling. It is not love, not within what it should really be.
But I can not say that there is no unconditional love nowadays. Looking around me, there are unperfect couples, but they stayed with each other. They may not be happy as they were before, but they never easily gave up when things get wrong. They try to fight together and work out things together.
They stay against all odds, against knowing what life had been for them together, against knowing their differences.
That is, ultimately, LOVE for me.
Just my two cents. Happy Valentines 2013.
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